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Tuesday, September 3, 2013

♥ Cycles

"I said, well daddy don't you know that thIngs go in cycles
The way that Bobby Brown is just ampin like Michael" -qtip the abstract




The time has come for me to come back around to this blog. I'm not sure what I have in store for this site or what it has in store for me but it has spawned something great once...




And I believe things go in cycles

♥ When you think of happiness, I hope you think of me.
8:43 PM

Friday, July 9, 2010

♥ GRATITUDE PROJECT: day 5

I am thankful for:

1. wisdom
2. grace
3. mercy
4. fruit
5. health
6. cleanliness
7. fear
8. comfort
9. shoes
10. privileges

♥ When you think of happiness, I hope you think of me.
12:15 AM

♥ GRATITUDE PROJECT: day 4

I am thankful for:

1. charity
2. cereal
3. college
4. dreams
5. music
6. information and technology
7. baseball
8. entertainment
9. intimacy
10. time

♥ When you think of happiness, I hope you think of me.
12:13 AM

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

♥ GRATITUDE PROJECT: day 3

im thankful for:

1. hugs
2. tissue
3. persistence
4. beauty
5. candy
6. surprises
7. relief
8. sleep
9. promises and the promise of tomorrow
10. vulnerability

♥ When you think of happiness, I hope you think of me.
1:41 PM

Monday, July 5, 2010

♥ GRATITUDE PROJECT: day 2

today im thankful for:

1. food
2. forgiveness
3. privacy
4. relaxation
5. dental floss
6. coupons, discounts, and sales
7. trust
8. communication
9. tears
10. understanding

♥ When you think of happiness, I hope you think of me.
8:20 PM

Sunday, July 4, 2010

♥ THE GRATITUDE PEROJECT: 30 days to a better me

I got this idea from @thenappygirl (http://thenappygirl.wordpress.com/). I will be posting 10 things that I am thankful for everyday for 30 days...simple

shall we start?!

DAY 1

1. love
2. healthy hair
3. cellphones
4. freedom of choice
5. inspiration
6. nail polish
7. having all my teeth
8. romance
9. hope
10. laughter

♥ When you think of happiness, I hope you think of me.
8:28 PM

Thursday, February 18, 2010

♥ much ado about nothing

THIS IS ABOUT HAIR!
but hair is just hair...right?

about 8 months I decided that this would be the last perm (relaxer) that I would subject myself to

to my knowledge a relaxer chemically weakens the natural texture of your hair by stripping it of protein and restructuring it.

^ that doesnt sound good to me
so i began a period known as transitioning
(my hair was extra silky for prom 2009)

2 months into transitioning
this was the summer of the flat iron

(that home spun haircut was fresh)

4 months into transitioning I just started to wear it curly...wash n' go

sometimes the difference between the two textures was too much to bear... I occasionally straightened

7 months down...
(flat ironed for new years...ignore that miniature sized kool-aid glass)

8 months and it became apparent i had a tightly curled afro with loosely curled strings errupting from it
(veggie sub)


after around 8 or 9 months of transitioning on 01/29/10 i big chopped.
(when its tightly coiled)
(a puff after stretching my hair)

i have heard so much negativity about my hair that it has been discouraging at times
  • ive been told that my hair was nappy
  • i need to perm it
  • i shouldnt go out of the house with my hair like that

between the black culture/negative comments/ and possibly personal thoughts that i am used to having
  • i feel that torn between whether straight hair is prettier
  • i most definitely do not want my hair to be straight
  • would i start on even playing field if i was like every other black woman with straight hair?
  • i dont want my hair to be a reaction getter/political/or personal statement
EVEN THOUGH IVE SPENT HOURS AND HOURS WORTH OF TIME FINDING OUT ABOUT RELAXED AND NATURAL HAIR

ITS JUST HAIR RIGHT?!

♥ When you think of happiness, I hope you think of me.
3:50 AM

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